Weshalb ist es ueblich, dass die Gesellschaft einen einzelnen so unglaublich, in den Himmel hoch lobt und wertet?, waehrend alles andere, wovon der Einzelne aber sehr abhaengt kaum einen Wert hat oder gewertet wird!?

Beispiel:

Ein Fussballer erkaempft sich den Ball in der eigenen Spielhaelfte, dribbelt alle Gegenspieler nieder und wird letztendlich im Sechzehnmeterraum gefault! Es gibt einen Elfmeter und diesen Schiesst natuerlich gemaess den ungeschriebenen Regeln ein anderer. Dieser Schiesst das Tor und ist der Held! Die gesamte Vorbereitung, das Dribbeln und das Erreichen des Elfmeters faellt in Vergessenheit! Aller Ruhm kommt nur dem Schuetzen zu! Unbegreiflich, unlogisch und dennoch wahr! Weshalb?

Ein anderes Beispiel:

Es ist immer nur ein Spieler aus einem Team der ueber alles gehoben wird! In der heutigen Zeit sind wir Zeugen, dass fuer einen Spieler, ob Fussball, Basketball oder Eishokey ist gleich Summen bezahlt werden, mit denen eine ganze Stadt mehrere Monate ernaehrt werden koennte! Mir wirft sich die Frage auf, was waere der einzelne ohne sein Team?! Kann ein einzelner zum Beispiel ein Fussballspiel gewinnen?! Natuerlich nicht! Folglich ist es ausserhalb jeglicher Vernunft, dass einzelne von unserer Gesellschaft in diesem Masse als „Uebermenschen“ dargestellt werden! Unglaublich aber Wahr!  Unsere Wertvorstellungen sind komplett falsch und verkehrt!

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Just one more question…

Why is it customary that our society so incredibly in the sky high praises a single and evaluates?, whithin everything else what the individual depends about very hardly worth has!

Example:

A footballer fought the ball into the own side of the pitch, dribble all opponents and ultimately stopped him in the 16 meter zone with a foul one opponent! There is a penalty and another player delivers this of course according to the unwritten rules. This result with the goal and he is the hero! The entire preparation, the dribbling and achieving the penalty fell into oblivion! All glory became the shooter of the penalty! Unbelievable but true! Why?

Some other example:

It is only one player from a team which will evaluate everything! Today we are seeing that for some player, whether football, basketball or hokey equal’s sums are paid which could nourish a whole city several months! With itself raises the question, what is the individual without his team? Can a single win for example a football game? Of course not! So, there is no reason that one individual from the society extent as “supermen” appear! But it does! The values are completely wrong!

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Because we write on this website about sensitive topics, let us not around the subject of relations. It belongs certainly to the most sensitive and most complex topics. Totally indifferent whether it is this to a friendship, a love or any another form of partnership.

Basically every partnership based on trust, mutual interest, or common target or other similarities.

Consider a partnership closer, or that something deeper are we firmly authorities that it is really easy. One partnership is much more significantly more complex. Of course, the above are  conditions necessary in a relationship but, there are some more,that we want to examine.

Is it because actually always how it look like? Or there are often within a relationship we so at first glance not discover things but with the time….came then the surprise to light!

Let us take a love-relation as an example;

What is love at all?

It is a fact, that such a relationship with the falling in love or sympathy begins! Now arises the question, how long the falling in love? How long is a man in love?

Hardly can find an exact response to this question.There are too many variables within this situation. So we leave it the falling in love not firmly some time to furnish take one. However, what then? What happens after declining the falling in love? We left the well-known love! Love is of course a huge scene! To love someone is probably the highest that a person can feel or experience! True, pure love are probably the most beautiful feelings which there and only right if they then also be reciprocated. There is hardly anything more beautiful in life! Only, as is seldom is the case. Usually it is often the case that instead of love, after the falling in love the habit is taken the place. Or even other interests. There do very complicated this a relationship can be, do we this situation wide and accurately discover. What happens if after falling in love, after we recognize that the partner / partner but not this is what we have presented to us. Who has the courage and the strength this relationship to stop? Very rare! Usually it is then case we find excuses and justifications, other to our cowardice to explain. This “cowardice” may also convenience; or laziness but primarily and usually is it to other interests. Namely, within the time which lasted the relationship interests have formed and installed certain habits. On the one we know that it incredible is to create habits difficult and on the other it is still essential to draw a harder various interests not in the case with the relationship. This no matter what kind of relationship is there! In usually the calculate begins these situations! And it is also usually then the laziness or convenience which us brings the relationship also still continue to run, even if we no real meaning in this relationship see. It is just easier to od nothing, or no mission to have. What we in such situations usually unaware, is the fact that us this behavioral huge brings pain is ready because, every day which we don’t make the decision  suffers move or not hit and consistently enforce our self-confidence. Additionally you can more read under “decisions”. Ever longer we postpone a decision, the less strength we have for later and it is more painful for us. It is generally the case that be implemented any decision should and immediately! Means if they are come to conclude that a decision be taken and implemented it is essential to be that this decision immediately implemented is! Any hesitation or postpone nibble of our substance. Also is then often so that one of the other in such a partnership certain “weakness” discovered and it exploits mostly without shame! These are situations in which we often suffer as beings. It is interesting that people in such situations very often still back drag and virtually any more space give another  to do! This can be as much go to the one in this case the “weaker” entirely the self-esteem loses and only exists! This is all of us a situation has seen or experienced. Only the question, how we handle such a situation to.

I will explain an own example here;

Some years ago I had a business relationship. Very closely expressed an acquaintance of mine had several ideas. One was from a company in a particular industry on the legs to make. His situation was, however, that he neither spoke a language accept his mother language and he no more quantities capital had. So I have the market analysis and have some ways found. The next step was to discussions under way now contact the possible future partners. After my acquaintance no foreign language speaks I was who led the discussions. Finally, after about a year we had a joint venture contract under roof and tray! It was founded a mixed company where the foreign partner 51 % of the shares held. Moreover the treaty envisaged that the foreign partner provides all machines needed to production and one appropriate amount of working capital. Thus the company could begin to work. In the autumn we began producing and back in out we had results which were more than exciting. So which was idea born by the foreign partner to purchase the shares. Only, who in a well-functioning company shares is this world sell? So it was my job to our foreign partners the business to make bad, that it for him as a partner not further looks interesting. Now, after about six months I had this objective achieved! I did it, that our foreign partners no longer were so sure in the investment and this was the time where we our brought idea on the table. After some discussions with our partners were so to sell the shares under certain conditions. The point but was that must handled the sale at a fixed time. It had to across the stage go before the balance sheet is created because the insight into the balance purchase will not work. I have this achieved and the transfer took place! Now, why this example really interesting is, is the following;

In this months of preparing the above transaction I had a few times so a funny feeling and wanted me several times with my friend at the table set to clarify the conditions between us and on the paper to the market. The fact is that my acquaintance repeatedly has succeeded it somehow to get that we had to do always somewhat differently.Then the acquisition was ultimately done, my acquaintance knew me no more! From one day to another. What I will put it, is not the badness of my friend, but the fact that I missed it, have to make a decision! I had signals, considerations in hull and fill! I have allowed everything to handle only my friend how it a decision suited to, just because I was too lazy or too convenient him take and to carry out. Is this not so much about the material loss! It is about the human value and “disappointment” I experienced. Because to be deceived, that is probably worst what a person ever can happen , I will here claim set I am not been fooled! I was only too easy or too lazy to make a decision! I had possibly fear to make this decision I shall discuss with my friend and this has then consequences. Before these consequences I had most fear and this is the main reason why people rarely appropriate decisions meet! While I can save very much me! Most importantly very much trouble! On the other hand, I have urged my friend, we put our relations on the paper and thus clearly regulate I would only my increase of them! In every way! Firstly, I had him to pushed, would I material value thereof and secondly, my acquaintance been thus disagreement, I had the former business relationship ended and had only benefits! I had my time in otherwise invested and I would not even about a year of transfer worked to ultimately held above the table. Therefore, make decisions is incredibly important and in relationships first right! The fears are probably one of the main problems in relationships! The fear before changes! What came then, or after? Here we have a very complex situation in which many factors play a role. Fear factory changes; our habits; fear of loss; it is ultimately then very much easier to do nothing and to take everything as it is! That we suffer this and sooner or later “go to reason,” that interested in probably none! Most of all ourselves! And this is the fact which give us most about thinking should whom this because, world if not let itself important his, ourselves? Who in this world is worry about our interests if not we ourselves? As long as we all this other leave, we are very literally! Although we naturally agree in a partnership to compromise need. Clear! But these compromises should and be compromise for mutually. A compromise which is only one side “is disadvantaged” is no compromise! It is however necessary that we understand that we protect our interests mainly because it will do no one but us! This we must be obviously even aware our and ready to take its decisions! I hear very often that people talk about very serious decisions! Now, how difficult is a decision? I am saying there is no serious or easy decision! There are only decisions! If I recognize that there are decisions the are easier to make than others because of one or other decision depends not so much! Is that really so? Usually depends on at each decision much material off! As long as the material is more important to us than our system, our dignity there is heavy and light decisions! At the moment we understand that every decision we as contributing resources and thus relies our dignity, we finally come to the conclusion, there is only decisions, any decision without exception brings benefits or other benefits! Every decision brings us benefits, we just recognize that much later! But in principle each decision brings us some advantage, if we are only prepared decisions to make and of course to set! Partnerships with compromises! Of course! However, as already above closer described a compromise is a compromise for both sites and can not penalize just one site. This is of course away from what position you take and how hard you your position represented. Are means as far, ready to give to get something. It is always, without exception always to give and take! This is a natural process! Nature exists on the basis of give and take! Would we nothing plants, would we…, no, not nothing reap! We would be have only weeds in our field. If we plant something, sow, then we know what we expect to reap exactly. This illustration sample is at every situation all life is because, from type to apply and take. I provides only the question what am I ready to enter for something to get? On this question each/each for himself should find an answer in each newly encountered situation. Think a moment in subsequent!

Each partnership is basically an interbank interest community! A man alone can achieve very much but two people can very much more! For example, it is for one alone very difficult to be parents. Together is an incredibly great experience. Therefore, a partnership can incredibly much give, luck, happiness, satisfaction but also very much suffering and bring pain. What it is only in your hand firmly set and decide, because it depend of your decisions! Each man for themselves! Take this as fact!

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Did you ever found yourself in the situation that you had the feeling, that you not listening? Or you yourself something not quite understands?

One of the difficulties of our society today is listening! There is really no one listening to the other! Therefore situations happen often that both think the same and still comes to the misunderstanding! Because none of the others really listens! Everyone wants only to hear his voice, there is no matter what the other thinks, says or talk! Me, me, me and still I! Not long ago, there was a interview between my wife and a slightly higher positioned person when the tax authority! He invited my wife to a discussion regarding cooperation! After the first words of welcome and of knowledge were exchanged, had he left his assistant discussion head of official agency! This was because this area to the area of assistant as much in order fell. The interesting was that the lady came in principle thereof that my wife had asked for this discussion. Nevertheless many times out pointed and repeated several times that her boss to this conversation inviting the lady was not prepared this but accept as fact to throb continues in this discussion, that my wife this conversation would have wanted! Now even if the chief confirmed this, to the lady was not easy to change beginning of discussion. Of course this conversation ended without having had a real meaning and of course without decision! It was namely that my wife this cooperation even not wanted and more respect and correction awareness this talk was. The lady wanted my wife nor in that department! Consequently, both had the same in the sense and yet none came matching on! Means; both think the same, think the same want the same but….the limps understanding from lack of emotional competence! The listening!

As I after a while came together with this man, the conversation came back of course the earlier described situation back. It was the question of, why the cooperation was not able? My answer was, “from lack of professionalism” “and expertise of the women they headed the talk”! After I my friend the situation was further described, he came from the wonder and had quake not out! He could not really believe and we kept it.

This situation I noticed here as an example, because she things us at least two (2) very clearly showing!

On the one which fact that people rarely have a real dialogue and the second we very often have people on lines in our society or experience, not in a position to this position meet. This in turn has some reasons. It is very often the case that people get a specific position because they “are acceptable” or politically same meaning! Very rarely people on lines from conventional reasons because they are competent! This plays the training or the knowledge no role at all. Secondly, it is often the case that the person responsible is not enough expertise to the capabilities to see of others! Again an example; some time ago I needed some employee and I wrote it out in the newspaper and I received very many  applications. It came very many interesting people and one I would like to take one of them for example: a young lady, at the age of 24 years was due to the curriculum vitae and the application to the conversation. In the application level, it is the young lady in position two foreign languages “to use” passive “spoken and written.” Because I do not wholly understand what they meant it, I asked them simply what use this passive should mean verbal and written. The answer was, could use in communication these languages and writes the minimum. So I asked the lady in english whether she could introduce in english! This replied with “Yes”! Then I ask in english to do what she replied, what she didn’t do because she didn’t have quite understood my question! Therefore, the set so please do it “has not quite” understood! But the sentence, are you able to introduce yourself “had allegedly” understood! I doubt this today! The point of this situation is precisely which that people very often with the knowledge pretend, which they do not have and also often nobody which test this is on the other hand and/or really can check. So the logical conclusion that it very often happens is that people on lines come the neither the knowledge have yet these are honest enough to admit. I am saying here of course not, that it is everywhere and that there would be no exceptions. Of course there are companies and companies where everything works as it should be! And of course there are undertakings which is led by people with knowledge and awareness as well as to the policies of emotional competencies. And of course there are companies where very much value on competencies at all, but also the emotional competencies will be encouraged. At the same time these are enterprise which work very well in times of crisis.

Mainly it is about the communication! Communication is the key to the success in all respects and in every situation! The communion is the beginning of everything. Better individuals are educated and here I mean not only the formal education in the sense means- and or higher education, but education at all! It must be absolutely always so that the success only is possible if we have a university degree. I already have this topic another section devoted to some rows. It is rather a question that a man must understand that it can never know everything! It is always someone which somewhat knows what the,- he don’t know! So, which is honestly even opposite the first and most important step? It is important to understand that we also know not everything! It is only great help if we know where we this knowledge find what we need at a certain moment! This is in turn self-knowledge needed! Self-knowledge that I never know everything can! Here an example: an acquaintance of mine had many years ago an idea to establish a business in a particular industry. It was a company in the foam industry. It was necessary to find partners abroad and this was the first hurdle for him. He spoke no other language. So he came to me because he knew that I two speak foreign languages. After about a year the company on its feet was filed and works today! Means that we are honest itself towards and forget the “wrong pride” everything is feasible and achievable. The second step is necessary communication! Without communication is nothing done! Therefore, only the thought, the idea, then communication and after much work, hard work and sweat! These are the basic elements for success. This applies not only in business. The same criteria can we apply in private with same success! Communication is again the magic word. Not ROAR, scream, or even harder measures. Communications may also lively or even intensive. The sound can be increased times but it must remain a communication. As long as we talk, we will find a solution also ever again! No matter what is at stake! By communicating our quality of life is essential increased and improved. The communication is also listening! Hear we others to understand what he wants to say and can respond. Hearing we are another we even his questions understanding and this answers questions. Is equally important that we question also actually respond and how generally with a reverse come. Each answer, and this applies when children ask too. Even it is sometimes difficult to tens of or even hundreds of asks the answer our children. Communication is the most important part the emotional competence of but also of life at all. Everything is based interpersonal relations on! Are the interpersonal everything else works relationships intact, also. The better the interpersonal relations work, better work also the collective no matter what it is! Whether family, company, school. Enterprise completely indifferent!

Very long experts has rejected that emotional competencies with the economy only the slightest have in common. Research in recent years in the western part of the world show but that the emotional skills very well their place in the economy has. It showed that the emotional competences have more influence than previously thought. The latest figures show that the emotional competence up to over 70 % for the success is responsible! It is even that previously highly awarded then IQ while is important, as we the technical skills but without success are much less emotional competencies. Means the IQ and formal training course are basic milestone. Can the success we only develop and expand when we on emotional competencies attention give and give this area of attention as it this fact matches. Therefore I dedicate whatever some lines in this book this topic because it is indispensable to about this topic to write, or that it explain! It is simply too important for our understanding. I therefore hope with the following explanation of the main characteristics of emotional power to make really understand the whole.

Emotional Powers are which the area in recent years, even decades more and more importance attributed this absolute entitled. Because this topic is very complex and wide I will here which basic features list and explain briefly.

1. What are emotional competencies?

2. What they are necessary and important

3. How are these other necessary skills such as technical skills, intelligence and expertise?

Emotional skills are skills on capabilities given by nature like mind, understanding, on the learned through experience, the experience, develop and severity and is primarily in interpersonal relations obtain functioning together. As well as on relations to improve to strengthen also the synergy and the team and the leadership to form and to make better and more successful!

We means better the emotional powers understand, accept and apply the better we will work where whatsoever and succeed!

We have even the first answer; what are emotional competencies important and/or what are!

Emotional skills are important in family, in team building, primarily teamwork overall for the establishment of common goals in the corporate structure and in all other life situations where we with others people have to do. Of course comes this particularly the quality of individual to light and is therefore incredible important because everything builds on the individual!

In recent decades, the decision was taken in the western world, that the emotional competencies are becoming increasingly important for overall success. Regardless of what we are doing what position we occupy or what work and to what extent EC* on the success of influence. It firmly made clear that emotional skills for success in the average are approximately 67 % responsible. Even two thirds means of success will depend on the EC* from where the cognitive, technical skills and the expertise for the remaining third or 33 % of success responsible.

Here are of course smaller differences possible depending on the position and/or work. As has been made resistant, that in some specific situation the EK responsible even up over 70 % for success.

This was a knowledge which was decisions new to many previous but also a surprise if not even a shock brings. Therefore I will below the main features list and explain briefly what are emotional competencies?

As we always there and to do with people everywhere who are subsequent declarations useful. You may find below and think about your opportunities for and newly any necessary changes!

Principle we know that everyone is different! As always we can some characteristics that most occurrence list.

We have usually people with how:

Sanguinary    = lively man with intensive temperament

Choleric          = easily flammable, pity, angry

Phlegmatic    = institution man, cool, all matter but boring

Analyst           = believes nothing and nobody, checks all and everything, withdraw

With people with we will have to do it most the above characteristics and can we all communicate adjust in the future and/or make better. Even if we alone about this topic could write a book, I hope  this information is sufficient to at least the approach to show recognizable and the diversity of people.

Now to the emotional skills and their main characteristics!

Emotional Expertise:

Aware its my / his own

What does mean “my self aware”?

EMOTIONAL AWARENESS

-THE UNDERSTANDING THE OWN FEELINGS AND THEIR CONSEQUENCES–

Means people with this capability

-know exactly what they feel (and more importantly) they know why they feel

-they understand the relation between what they feel and what they think, speak and do

-they are aware about how their feelings do work to him

-they are own values and goals by which they directed be beware

SELF-ASSESSMENT

One understands detailed, accurate self-assessment; how do I which my own sources own abilities and limitations.

Only after we detect, consciously recognize and accept that we can change. Changes make only we can alone but only after we recognize!

Means people with this ability are

-is own strength and own abilities aware

-reflexively, means that they learn from own experience

-open for response, new perspectives, constructive criticism, constant learning and extending of own knowledge and willing to itself tirelessly to work and to develop as being

-humorous on their own account and always a perspective

SELFAWARNESS / SELFESTEEM

Means “strong sense of own values and skills”, to know what I am and what I can!

NOT ARROGANCE!!

Means people with this capability

-represent yourself or an organization with confidence, are always present, wake

-express also unpopular positions and also accept “victim at right decisions“

-are able to make decisions and make decisions under pressure and in critical situations

LORD BE HIS SELF

SELF-CONTROL

.. .is the ability of celibacy and control of feelings and impulses, the our quiets can  destroy

Means people with this capability

-go with their feelings, reflections, pulses and unrest very well to

-are always quiet, “in cold blood” and positive.” Also in Crisis situations

-think always clear, keep on concentration under pressure high level

GLAUBWÜRDIGKEIT/ VERANTWORTUNGSBEWUSSTSEIN

Means «honesty», «and responsibility for their own roles and responsibilities.

People with this important ability:

Credibility

-all actions are absolutely ethical

-that confidence on reliability and self loyalty built is

-confess own mistakes and oppose immoral acts

-even if it is unpopular represent their principle

Sense of responsibility

-do their jobs and keep states

-accept responsibility for achieving the objectives or goals

-are well organized, careful and self-critical

-to take responsibility for “failure”

INNOVATIVE / ADAPTABLE

Acceptance new ideas and perspectives and flexibility in responding to the various changes

People with these skills

Innovative

-find new ideas in the width of the sources

-find original solutions for incoming and new situations

-are making oriented

-accept new perspectives positions and are confident and proud

Adaptability

-accept the need and handle with easily the most difficult tasks

-have the ability to fit when responding to and/or when changing tactics based on the new situation

-consider events objectively realistically and flexibly

MOTIVATED

… be the desire for progress and/or satisfaction after excellence

People with this ability

-are performance-oriented, target oriented and meet the standards. The objective of

-bury challenging goals and take or accept  “a calculated / calculable risk”

-minimize risk by collecting information and data to eliminate hence the uncertainties. Find the best way to complete the task

-are hungry to improve their own perfection

After we now who met most common properties have and it can detect, I hope to have given a milestone your quality of life to increase significantly. I at least hope enough information given to have, so that you understand that EC* in fact the most important is the link for the functioning of the human person and human kind in totally. The more we pay more attention to the purchase, the better we will function and the more successful we will be! It is in our privately Satisfaction and our luck recognizable! It depends on everything from the interpersonal relations from that of our understanding for others people and of understanding of others for us! We understand the importance are we going to do much easier us area and in the future in this waiting incredibly beautiful experiences for us! This, it is important to claim that we can harvest only what we saw! At the latest here is clearly that the emotional skills very important this absolutely right and play. It is all the more important that we understand this and accept but much more important is applying this in practice! Your fellow man and environment know to recognize it and thank!

* EC = emotional competence

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We set apart terms us with these, because they just belong to the personality as the most important features! Independence!

Because what does independence? Unless it is contra dependence! So, what or who is independent? Is there at all regardless/e/s?

My opinion is that there is no real independence! Even people the “nearly everything” have are not independent!” These people depend on other people or institutions or organizations! There is nothing and no one that is completely independent or would be! This has very clearly shown the past us! Because we think people this term primarily of material independence, it’s easy to show that there is not really this independence. Because everyone and everything depends others someone. And of course everything and anything depends! Independence is only a utopia “has invented anyone” so, that we humans have what we’re looking for, whereby we us see something!” Nothing and nobody can work alone! Can someone without another long-term exist, nor can a society without another work! This shows us clearly by nature, where everything is connected. There is no light without shadows, there would be the day without the darkness as well as there were no life without our Sun! Therefore, the whole life of the entire existence is based a coexistence or a level of game depend between.

What does independence so?

One of many issues which are value to answer. Let us consider this question in the above example is very clear that there is the independence as such not at all! The concept of independence serves only the “enslavement”! Everyone who yearn for independence is itself a slave of this! Or in other words becomes hostage to the desire for independence, the quest then is alone dangerous enough! Imagine to achieve this is almost delusion! The main reason for this is to hidden we humans as mentioned are accustomed to think materially, and there is always someone is “more powerful” and we depend on always from someone or something! Alone the desire for more and more can be hostage! It shapes the dependency “to have even more….”!

Accept although I understand that it is incredibly difficult to think it is equally difficult to as fact in this manner is a fact that can be disputed or refuted with nothing yet. Think so a moment about! What is independence? What must or should achieve a man to be independent? Or a company? An enterprise, even if it is so large and multinational, is still not long regardless! Imagine times, now no one uses more mobile-phone? Or driving car? Or need a refrigerator? What happens? It is clear that there is nothing and nobody is truly independent! Each and everyone depends on something or someone, and it is a good thing! We can work together only and only together we can develop our progress in all directions! To close or isolate no man has or nation something of it. Only when we understand that our future only in the “cooperation” hidden is we have a future! Everything else make our chances very small! Any other way of thinking is self-deception, completely fail on the square and wrong!

Because we think people usually very complicated, consider the notion of freedom. The fact is that we humans the concepts of independence and freedom watch as equal or as one and the same thing! This is however not the case! Independence we have explained and explain the following also opposed to freedom. Therefore define once the notion of freedom! So what is freedom, or what means freedom?

Freedom is something someone gives us or there is something we can buy or….?

Now, nothing of everything! Freedom is not something that can be paid even purchased! Although us here the story in some examples tries to show the opposite! Fact is that everyone with birth obtained freedom but! Means born everyone in freedom and thus entitled to no excuses! The fact that our society is organized like it is are people the other almost “enslave” changes fact referred to not! Freedom refers not only to our physical freedom, what most people expect but more on our intellectual freedom! Our freedom in thought! These factors are essential! Not our physical presence! A man who thinks no own thoughts can be never free! A man who does not use his own ego, potential and his own mind is “enslaved”! We can be for example materially independent because we earn well on the Wall-street and we are still not free! Real freedom means independence from the material! Only when we understand the material enslaved us and our freedom takes us, we have laid the basis for independence and/or freedom! Apart from that, you have seen ever, that you wanted some very costly item and after some time also immovable got no satisfaction more give us but, already short of time? This is because obtained satisfaction with nothing outside and not purchased as freedom! With nothing! We have given our mother nature freedom! We can develop our material independence. However, only the material independence! This does not mean then of course that, when we reach the material independence, we are independent of everything! We achieve more material, we become more dependent! Therefore, I am on the claim here that an error exists in our people in the start in the thought process! We people assume that if a person is physically situated it is regardless! False! On the contrary! Imagine a people with high incomes which loses the high income for any reason. Is it difficult or easy for this person at the lower income? Anything but simple! So independence is only one expression to draw us people easier and we got from nature and know not to use this because we are too lazy to at least consider what is freedom at all or means freedom!

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What is it, what can shock or shake our consciousness?

Our values, our instability, our wrong way to live, our wrong standpoint, to much passion or addiction, to much fear, and of course less respect to human at all and for sure, to less respect to yourself!

Now, how we can keep or even raise? Thats a very good question! We can keep or raise it with knowledge! To learn about us, about our world, earth, everything in our environment! To learn and to understand!

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So, who, are we each of us or what? And what is “me”?

Let’s start so firmly to make what is a man and what constitutes him. To provide this firmly we must not just by be. Although is here retires opinions, we will here objective turn and they look at this matter, but we are also some lines give different perspective. Not the impression you want to arise that we ourselves against press openly about all possibilities to write.

So only the question we are what? What makes up a people? 

Have you thought until now ever?

In principle we can establish the claim, that a man is the result of his experiences, learned, of skills. This applies to each time when we collect with every minute new experiences and new information. Our thoughts are what really constitute us. Our way to think! Also wants to make this so many dispute us and even as far, that it attempts from thinking it people. Try and all we do to cause us that we do not own thoughts forms but only follow no excuses! But, what happens if we no longer use our thinking? Do we exist later at all yet? … Yes! But, really rather not live there are yes. Because each of us is an own individual and say some development of nature, that it is incredibly important evolution that are each of us the space leaves or takes his own thoughts to form. Only as we receive us our individuality, our uniqueness the each of us so special makes. Thus there are our thoughts representing us primarily! We leave some others “idea”, we are no longer real “me”! Our thoughts go out reactions which acts and deeds characterize us. Quite part from the fact that our thoughts also in terms of broadcast flag. What we think the rays we in the society and that what we broadcast we are! This makes us as personality!

After each of us wants to be her/him, the others draws, it is merely to who is proactive in thinking and who is more able others for his thoughts to win, or who is just to lazy own thoughts to form and therefore other follows. This has to do, of course, later with responsibility that we the other chapter edits but primarily are here given declaration true and accurate. It is so easy! The fact that most people follow other people, organizations has a variety of reasons. Laziness, convenience, education, consciousness, and much more! All here we edit properties listed in these texts in different Chapters. Here to explain to us why it is important to understand that each of us exactly the same conditions has also like each other and that nobody has a greater right as another! Although this is not apparent in our society because finely and cleanly is presented by various organizations! It is difficult to make, that is mainly about other the thinking to take or avoid of the habit to thinking. Everyone who think, own thought shapes or groups is potentially dangerous. Finally, anyone who shapes difficult to control of their own thoughts and usually it is so that people who take the own thoughts live life and also the responsibility to take and thus no longer without will others follow and not do what the others want to require or impose. Thus everyone which shapes their own thoughts and holds is potentially danger. Take we also here the example of any organization. It does this ever not matter what organization are involved, because most anyway from led or guided same people. The aim of each organization is itself to bind as many people as possible this almost “dependent” or the “services” to make these dimensions” to control. This is the definitely goal of each organization without exception! Some of these organizations even want to tell us that we people are just times as to the two thousand years old or young! This is it an incredible number of scientific evidence, that this absurd is! But the most interesting is the fact that a large number walk about these organizations of people. This is the feeling that people rather like sheep’s behave! Without will resources without after to think that do, what requires someone! It is even unbelievable that it is are large number of people who are highly educated themselves even as Scientists declare a specific organization then publicly or even person to immediately! This is my opinion unbelievable fact at all. This is one of that but also reasons why the mass of humanity walk about such organizations and do almost everything which is required of them. Because most people to other people and only rather too high educated people “upwards” look! They are as something considered “higher” or as if they were worth “more” than others! This is definitely not the case! It is certainly not the case that anyone only because his education is more valuable or even claims to have! The society has this merits this group of people given! Because most are not aware of the fact that it people are no difference! The level of education is in any way the yardstick for the quality of people! Is also a position or the work no scale? This things are society has installed and thus virtually of themselves has subjugated itself. Hardly a man would contact inherently over one another! This is the reason that the most people have too little confidence. Thus, it is clear that people in the society “higher” role play, this role it got assigned by us! From the crowd! This has however long nothing to do with their/him as people. Only with their/him as competency or with his education or training! Means the level of education not decides mainly on the position or the employment inevitably on quality than man! Even if it generally to is considered! Unfortunately, the recent past teaches us that it in the “higher” classes is very much mud and very many people” far below human dignity live and work. I would in this topic here not deeper comment. It is only important that you love me Reader, dear reader at least begin thinking and many of now consider differently. At least but that you from now on their own forms of thought and not longer almost without will always just do what others want. No matter whom it is! Take your own thoughts! Use the gift which has put nature in the cradle! To give you no longer satisfied only a “satellite” to be!” You have the right and the right to your own life and the establishment of its own aim, wish, objectives, and needs! To do this it is to of course necessary free! Make you free certain of bias and certain dogmas! Think simply a moment about after! The thinking is the origin of everything! Everything happened ever in the world began with a thought! Your ideas shaping your future! So you no longer neglect the power they you have! Use your own ego! Leave it to light the daylight come and use your own potential! Liberate themselves finally all print and each bias and take your own opinion! Start now to use starting immediately your thinking power! You wonder is how beautiful and you be surprises experience you were hardly for possible! Thought has been given to us all and it makes us unique! So use this uniqueness and remain unique how you should be, how it has provided the nature! Be you self! Find and understand to be your own ego!

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There are also the ancient award order, work and discipline! Therefore what drann had to discipline be. So it was time to explore what because this self-discipline drann is.

Only once so the question is what because Self-discipline?

Seen, there is hardly anything easier than answer this question. Self-discipline means that I me to bring something to do or refrain from and this regularly. A disciplined person will for example never be too late to work, or the home dinner. Self-discipline has much to be done with punctuality, correctness, accuracy, even precision. Especially means self-discipline but also things to do or not necessarily get the things include, which we like to do or not.

As an example that should all us so badly are covered by getting up in the morning. I assume that there is known and it has probably seen anyone in his life, how it sometimes can be difficult in the morning on to are especially after one “long” night! Self-discipline serves to us to do so despite everything to move on to stand. Usually there are then still “5 minutes” that convert also typically much more minutes if even hours and the result is ” to miss by sleeping”! A man which has selfdisciplin is of course despite the “long” night get up and go his duties after or its tasks.

A different example and I a much better is the problem with obesity. We are today witness this problem worldwide assumes a scale that almost is frightening. Why this is the case, is very easy to explain! Lack of self-disciplin. Self-discipline begins in education and secure is a part where the parents play a major role in the form of role model. After a child copied almost everything, it is important that parents here the self-discipline view in life than previous model sample. Only very few people do indeed. Even if the problem of obesity in the health is, will I take this example here, because it very serves well to explain.

Most people with obesity drop one kilogram of pigmeat by youth with it. Is therefore to all only to education. Remember, “one one for the mum, one for the daddy” a for… some people encounter much later, this “problem” but it remains a “problem”! Almost everyone of the problem obesity has, began to eat sooner or later uncontrollably. Apart from the people, the one other “problem” with the metabolism have. Whether here parents in time have intervened or the / moments-itself, be only once then filed. The fact is that many people struggle with obesity, because it is itself not to quite come. Lack self-discipline. Of course there are also people the conditionally by failures in the body weight create but, this We highlight in an other chapters. Here is the People, simply from laziness or convenience with obesity fight. Laziness because most people are too lazy To make this decision and if, then most are just too lazy to them to set. And this dear reader/prefer has indeed and very much with discipline to do.

An example; some god friend of mine, I the day many years daily about his overweight complains is a perfect example. Not long ago we had a birthday party. Birthday parties is customary that drunk, but also eaten.There is plenty to drink and besides the grilled a piglet was most been prepared tables and much more to eat. Now, after my acquaintance really struggling with overweight because he is probably to the 30 kg too much or even more, it would be very wise to check the lack for him. But as he even says; “the hell with the self-discipline as long it „soooo well taste”! It outweighs the apetit. It like my friend annoy if he can buy no shirt, because the commercial shirts one to have small collar size or he still likes similar but, the self-discipline less. It is so easy. If we set at the table it is necessary that we too all set only firmly that we each bite multi chew, we eat much slower than hitherto and last and finally we stop to eat if it begins to taste. This is of course, only possible if we start deliberately to enjoy! These decisions are incredibly important in above-mentioned situation. Alone that make decisions already heard in the area of self-discipline. Who is disciplined decisions and it is the taken decisions. Means also with self-discipline has to do with character. Have we solid “me” and thus our word is us very much value. Are we doing us with the self-discipline easily. Self-discipline brings include many other benefits. We are taken seriously by others, because we always meet what we say or even promise. Some decisions fall hard but a man with self-disciplin  is of the agreed not differ. Even if it should be hardly or painful. A man with self-disciplin is not only himself against responsibly but also other humans. Self-discipline means simply away to make decisions and it without if and but to set. Of course this does not mean that a man with self-disciplin enforces its decision, no matter how or what! But whereas such people that everything it has made also implements. Whether it is early getting up, to a favour a friend or someone you know or whatever else. A person with self-disciplin shall simply great importance that everything is handled as it was arranged and such people we are it rarely experience that they must excuse me. These people are disciplined in all locations and life situations. Often through their pain threshold but discipline is a “bid”! In addition to the listed benefits another feature of self-discipline is that this property in first successful people have line and apply. Without self-discipline is no target to achieve! And the self-discipline is one of habits the is every man should acquire now!

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Basically the question, which depends on our well-being? What is our Health? And can we, each of us on our well-being or our health act? Can we impact take on our well-being and if “Yes”, how?”

One interesting question! The answer is very simple and is “yes”! We, each of us are of course in the situation on our own well-being to work and to influence this. Equally it is corresponds fact that each individual can on his own health directly act. This provides the question of knowledge and awareness. Know, how many people know so because it is very doubtful, that they themselves on their own well-being and their health very can work well, or even responsible are for!

Today is generally customary that someone as soon complaints demonstrate goes to the doctor. Is so far OK! But what happens then? The doctor examines the patient, provides diagnostics and commits tablets or pills, in the rule! Here we should be honest enough too give tablets in principle which affect on symptoms not the cause! As long as we fight the symptoms can no cure place find! But, our therapies begin with tablets. I will explain again my own example list;

I had huge headaches many years ago. There were migraine attacks. Each the one-time headache what it means and is migraine had to know a multiple intensive as headache. For me this went so far that I several times in powerlessness fell. Times I had migraine with the result that I me transfer and helped only total darkness, silence and deep sleep can I not enumerate, since it took over many years. As I then finally decided something to do, so I went to the doctor. My doctor prescribed me tablets that I also regularly took; however, it was no better. I had also continue, partly for days continuously headache. During my second visit my doctor prescribed other Pills! But this not helped! So it went until I believe one Doctor asked, “whether he would regard me as a testing rabbit”! After this I had one transfer question and a longer discussion finally to the first specialists. This happened but only basically I forced! Would have I not it pushed would swallowed I now so many pills have that I very probably already where “would different”! But teaches with experience I was very sceptically about doctors because of the experience of my mother and therapies and was therefore very firm in my appearance against my doctor. Having visited virtually all specialists and no a solution had. It was for my own hard because there just one possible solution was. It remained us the psychologist or soul battle! Now since I was physically and organic absolutely healthy, this was the logical Implication. When I came home that day, began I for in to think. What can do a psychologist? On which type or way to me a Psychologist help? Now, I came more and more in doubt. Ultimately knows me nobody as good as I do! This had the effect that I finally came, that, if my headache is a mental “problem”, then I am the only one which can resolve this situation or that of a solution can find. I felt I was expressed in other words after the only one which can eliminate this pain. So I began to read! Literature in area psychology, literature in terms of headaches, migraine and everything else what I could find and it only appears had help can or provide information. I was convinced that I can eliminate this pain. Provided that the diagnostic my doctor was right! Advance, it was right! I was and am today healthy physically and organic. Then I had to fight with migraine this I have no longer! And that honest way I can them today not to the detail describing how I expressed this position! The fact is that I now have very many years still from and headaches but I no longer had migraine for years. The last accident with passed and I had 2001/2002 almost in powerlessness! If we now the period consider of pain where I see this crisis, let’s approximately 13 up to 14 years. When I took the decision, that I the migraine when at all only alone resolve can I caught of knowledge to collect. Not only read! I had the opportunity to entertain me with doctors. With doctors from almost all disciplines and this way I have used. I have read everything what appeared interesting and new used every opportunity to collect knowledge. I naturally have me all these obtained knowledge then formed my own opinion and the result was that I after an adhesive-seizure 1989/1990, I started to read and knowledge to collect firmly was period of pain which reduces or reduced. Months later I noticed that is now the intensity of pain reaching! The pain was weaker. This meant a unique improvement! The pain was weaker after and cut the periods of pain them. Is still added that I was equally firmly, that is the periods extended between the crises! First I could it not really believe! So I began notes to make to me. After a few months it was clear! It has set an improvement and it was from week to week better! Was more time of accident to seizure, the attacks were not more so intensively and the time of the pain reduced rapidly! This should serve only as view example! I could here are some other enumerate cases! Of course my own experiences! But, this example with the migraine shows very clearly that a person alone much for be Well-being can do and thus for his health! This applies of course for other concerns. After it is clearly obvious, that the human body a mechanism integrated has, allows us our complaints itself to regulate it is easily on their own well-being! We need only know and be completely aware of this fact! In the nature very often renewed energy and it is also with the human body. Nature has earlier standpoint and has the human body everything prepared and armed! In recent years is always more about to read the various therapies and also increasingly healers! To This situation to explain, namely the medicine man method, we are the question points, “what does a healer in his patient”? The answer is very easy! It causes a self-healing! The claim that one man heals other people is more than absurd! It is only thus that the “healers” a process sets which has a self healing means!” The human body is equipped for everything! Also the self-healing! Finally, we know “all about us and our body system”! Our system has finally our growth controlled our development and everything else what has to do with us and our body! Therefore can only our “nature”, namely we even for our health and our well-being very much can do. We can avoid although not every disease but we can very I think our recovery summon, or even control. And where it plays not matter what disease is at stake! There are people even cancer have defeated! There are people, the paralyzed goods and walk again! Here I could enumerate through the infinite! It is possible! Of course only if we start use our own force for good! Only if we us on leave ourselves!

Yet an example! My son is just 12 years old had one fat accumulation in the abdomen. This went so far that we this fat accumulation operationally did as take away. He was 7 years old. After a few years he had this fat accumulation in the same place again. In the meantime I however more learned and understood and we share it wrought in the form that is the fat accumulation “of alone withdrawing”! The fat accumulation disappeared simply! Or, an acquaintance of mine came one day and could barely walk! He had complaints in his knee and they torment him already for days and weeks. After a short conversation we have together it wrought so that the pain was weaker! Closest we have repeated the meeting the day after and the pain was gone! He ran totally without pain! We had eliminated the cause! In both cases! So I will show only that, it’s not me who someone heals but I can set only the process of healing in motion! The point but is that everyone has these opportunities! We are all the same! Nature knows no difference! In color faith alignment, society, material wealth or other standards man so throughout the millennial has invented! There are no differences among people! We are all equal! The question is merely if we have understood this and instead, we are absolutely this fact aware! Because only then we can also use this power! We have is clear without even doubt! I could have some other examples enumerate to underpin this fact but, at the top is listed examples clearly obvious that everyone the mechanism is in itself! We have just to “found the button” to set this mechanism in motion, or enable.

The principle question which depends on our well-being is what is our Health? And can we each of us on our well-being or our Health Act? Yes we can take to influence on our well-being! We just have to work on our self and of course we have to be honest with us. We have to understand that we have the necessary power! Every one of us! We just have to use it and our world will be much healthier then up today! And of course it is not something what works within seconds or hours! It is some learn process, means process at all. Also it depend what kind of suffer we have. But for sure is that we, every each of us are responsible for the own well-being and the other conditions about our health! If it is about fat or over kilograms, or it is about cigarettes, or anything else! Just try yourself!

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